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St. Nicholas Episcopal Church of Kapolei Hawaii has held "Covenant Group" meetings for about 10 years. These groups meet weekly for fellowship, prayer and reflection on the readings and the sermon from the previous week. This blog is an attempt to offer the prayer and reflection as an on-going basis. The challenges of schedules and more prevent many members from participating in our groups, perhaps this will allow for additional participation. I will post readings and questions - please answer the questions and contribute as you're comfortable in the comment sections. Blessings

Friday, August 9, 2013

Book - Treasurers


BOOK – Luke 12:13-21
Jesus warns against being focused on material things.

1.             Why do you think the person asked Jesus to help him settle his family dispute?
2.             How did he help this man?

3.             What treasures are you storing up for yourself? 


Luke 12:13-21

Someone in the crowd said to Jesus, "Teacher, tell my brother to divide the family inheritance with me." But he said to him, "Friend, who set me to be a judge or arbitrator over you?" And he said to them, "Take care! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; for one's life does not consist in the abundance of possessions." Then he told them a parable: "The land of a rich man produced abundantly. And he thought to himself, `What should I do, for I have no place to store my crops?' Then he said, `I will do this: I will pull down my barns and build larger ones, and there I will store all my grain and my goods. And I will say to my soul, `Soul, you have ample goods laid up for many years; relax, eat, drink, be merry.' But God said to him, `You fool! This very night your life is being demanded of you. And the things you have prepared, whose will they be?' So it is with those who store up treasures for themselves but are not rich toward God."




Wednesday, August 7, 2013

LOOK - Treasures


  1. The sermon is posted on our website this week - www.stnickschurch.org


    The American way has been to succeed, succeed, succeed. Do better than your parents did – have more than the previous generation did. We have been successful in this as a country, but now face problems such as obesity, instead of hunger.
    1. Do you feel like you’ve done better than your parents did? In what ways? Are there areas where you feel your parents did better than you? What?
    2. Is it important to you to strive for the nice: house, car, clothes, jewelry? Where do you think that desire comes from?
    3. What is your definition of success? Has that definition changed as you’ve gone through life?

Thursday, August 1, 2013

LOOK - BOOK - TOOK

sorry to post these all together . . . but I'm going to be away from my computer on a bit of a vacation (riding the MS Ride on the Big Island, more on that via Twitter and FB)


Teach us to pray –

LOOK
Wanting something and not being able to get it can end up being either mildly irritating or bitterly disappointing –to the point of disruption in your life.  However, sometimes what you think you want is not necessarily the best thing for you!

1.      When you were a child, what happened when you didn’t get what you wanted?  Has that changed since you’ve grown to adulthood?
2.      If you have/had little ones in your life (nieces/nephews/children) and have had to say “no” to them, how did they react – AND how did you react to their reaction?
3.      Have you seen examples of:  “be careful what you wish for”?  Share one.


BOOK – Luke 11:1-13
Jesus teaches us to pray.

1.   What does this prayer mean to you?
2.   Does this prayer help you pray other prayers?  How? 
3.   What do you make of the discussion regarding persistence in prayer?



TOOK
Knowing what to ask for in prayer can be a tricky proposition!

1.      How can you let your prayers be guided by God’s will vs. your own wants and desires?
2.      What happens when a prayer is answered, but not in the way you wanted – first off, do you even recognize the prayer was answered?  Then, do you get mad at God?  Blame Him?  Have you ever praised him instead?  If not, could you see yourself doing so?  What do you think would happen if you did praise Him instead of getting upset? 
3.      How can your faith community (covenant group, small group, ministry team, congregation) help you in your prayers?  How can you help others with their prayers? 



Luke 11:1-13

Jesus was praying in a certain place, and after he had finished, one of his disciples said to him, "Lord, teach us to pray, as John taught his disciples." He said to them, "When you pray, say:

Father, hallowed be your name.

Your kingdom come.

Give us each day our daily bread.

And forgive us our sins,

for we ourselves forgive everyone indebted to us.

And do not bring us to the time of trial."

And he said to them, "Suppose one of you has a friend, and you go to him at midnight and say to him, `Friend, lend me three loaves of bread; for a friend of mine has arrived, and I have nothing to set before him.' And he answers from within, `Do not bother me; the door has already been locked, and my children are with me in bed; I cannot get up and give you anything.' I tell you, even though he will not get up and give him anything because he is his friend, at least because of his persistence he will get up and give him whatever he needs.

"So I say to you, Ask, and it will be given you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened for you. For everyone who asks receives, and everyone who searches finds, and for everyone who knocks, the door will be opened. Is there anyone among you who, if your child asks for a fish, will give a snake instead of a fish? Or if the child asks for an egg, will give a scorpion? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!"


 

Monday, July 29, 2013

Highs, lows and prayer requests

Another important part of our covenant groups has been fellowship and time with our faith community.  We begin in prayer and each take turns sharing "highs" and "lows" of the week.  At the end of the Look, Book, Took there is time to share prayer requests as well as share updates relating to prior requests.

What was your high for the week?

Your low?

Prayers?

Friday, July 26, 2013

Took - Making time to listen


TOOK
Being able to choose the better part...why isn’t that easy for us??!
  1. What are the hardest things for you to shut down (ie your devices, tv, voice in your head, spouse, kids....)
  2. How hard would it be for you to shut down for an hour a week to spend in time with God –giving him your burdens, your prayers, and listening/feeling for a response?
  3. Are you willing to try? If you fail, are you willing to try again? And again until you can get that hour each week? If not, why not? Once you have the hour a week, think you could extend it to an hour a day? 

Thursday, July 25, 2013

Book - Making time to listen


BOOK – Luke 10:38-42
Jesus provides another surprising answer, what do we learn from his answer . . .
  1. What assumptions do you hold in this story?
  2. Do you relate most to Mary or Martha? Why?
  3. What is the better part that Mary has chosen? 


    Luke 10:38-42
    As Jesus and his disciples went on their way, Jesus entered a certain village, where a woman named Martha welcomed him into her home. She had a sister named Mary, who sat at the Lord's feet and listened to what he was saying. But Martha was distracted by her many tasks; so she came to him and asked, "Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to do all the work by myself? Tell her then to help me." But the Lord answered her, "Martha, Martha, you are worried and distracted by many things; there is need of only one thing. Mary has chosen the better part, which will not be taken away from her." 

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Look - Making time to listen


“Busy” – a common answer when you ask how someone has been, let’s look at what keeps you busy and distracted.
  1. Are you easily distracted?
  2. Share a time when you missed out on something because you were
    busy and distracted with something else.
  3. When life gets hectic, what are you most likely to put on hold?